Child Custody

How to get custody of a child?

Chris Wise
December 14, 2023
7 min. read

Gaining custody of a child is a common and often confusing process in family law. The steps to obtain custody can vary depending on the jurisdiction and the specific circumstances of the case. While it is important to consult with a family law attorney to understand the laws and procedures in your jurisdiction, there are some general guidelines that can help you navigate the process.

 

What is Child Custody?

Child custody is a term that encompasses both physical custody and legal custody, although it is often confused with these specific definitions. While physical custody refers to who has physical possession of the child, legal custody refers to who has responsibility for and authority over the child. In some states, such as Ohio, both physical and legal custody are referred to as "full custody." Additionally, the terms "timesharing," "parenting time," or "visitation" are used to describe the amount of time a child spends with each parent.

 

It is important to understand the distinctions between these terms to avoid confusion. Child custody involves not only physical possession but also the rights and responsibilities associated with raising the child. Legal custody grants a parent the authority to make important decisions regarding the child's upbringing, such as education, healthcare, and religious matters. Physical custody, on the other hand, determines where the child primarily resides.

 

Timesharing, parenting time, or visitation refers to the specific schedule or arrangement that determines how much time the child spends with each parent. This can vary depending on the circumstances and the best interests of the child. The goal is to ensure that both parents have meaningful and regular contact with the child, promoting a healthy parent-child relationship.

 

It is crucial for parties and attorneys to use these terms accurately to avoid misunderstandings and to ensure that the best interests of the child are prioritized. By understanding the definitions of child custody, physical custody, legal custody, and timesharing, parties can navigate the legal process more effectively and work towards a custody arrangement that serves the child's well-being.

 

It is worth noting that the specific definitions and terminology may vary from state to state. Therefore, it is important to consult with a family law attorney who is knowledgeable about the laws and terminology in your jurisdiction. They can provide guidance based on the specific circumstances of your case and help you navigate the legal process with clarity and accuracy.

 

What does the Court Consider When Determining Child Custody?

Contrary to popular belief, being a biological parent does not automatically grant one child custody rights in Indiana. The court's primary consideration in determining child custody is the best interests of the child. While the court recognizes the importance of maintaining a child's relationship with both parents, it will assess various factors to determine the most suitable custody arrangement. This means that the court will assess various factors to determine the custody arrangement that will promote the child's overall well-being and provide them with a stable and nurturing environment.

 

Some of the key factors that the court considers when determining child custody include:

1.      The child's relationship with each parent: The court will evaluate the quality of the child's relationship with each parent, including the level of emotional bond, communication, and involvement in the child's life.

2.      Each parent's ability to provide for the child's needs: The court will assess the physical, emotional, and financial capabilities of each parent to meet the child's basic needs, such as food, shelter, clothing, healthcare, and education.

3.      The child's preference: If the child is of sufficient age and maturity, the court may take their preference into consideration when determining custody. However, the child's preference is not the sole determining factor and must align with their best interests.

4.      The mental and physical health of the parents: The court will evaluate the mental and physical health of each parent to ensure their ability to provide a safe and stable environment for the child.

5.      The parents' willingness to foster a positive relationship with the other parent: The court encourages parents to support and facilitate a healthy relationship between the child and the other parent. A parent's willingness to cooperate and promote the child's relationship with the other parent is highly valued.

6.      Any history of domestic violence or substance abuse: The court will consider any history of domestic violence or substance abuse by either parent, as it may significantly impact the child's safety and well-being.

 

It is important to note that the court aims to promote shared parenting and encourages both parents to have frequent and meaningful involvement in the child's life, unless it is determined to be against the child's best interests.

 

Can Child Custody be Modified after the Court’s Initial Determination?

Child custody can be modified from the parent who was initially granted custody if certain conditions arise. In most states, child custody orders can be modified if there has been a change in circumstances that warrants a modification in the best interests of the child. The court's primary consideration is always the well-being and welfare of the child involved.

 

To initiate a modification of child custody, the party seeking the modification must demonstrate that there has been a substantial change in circumstances since the entry of the original custody order. This change must be significant enough to affect the child's best interests and necessitate a modification of the existing custody arrangement.

 

Examples of circumstances that may warrant a modification of child custody include:

1.      Relocation: If one parent is planning to move a significant distance away, it may impact the existing custody arrangement. The court will consider the impact of the move on the child's relationship with both parents and determine if a modification is necessary.

2.      Changes in the child's needs: If the child's needs have significantly changed, such as medical or educational needs, it may warrant a modification of custody to ensure that the child's best interests are met.

3.      Parental misconduct or inability to provide a safe environment: If one parent engages in behavior that endangers the child's well-being, such as substance abuse, neglect, or domestic violence, it may be grounds for a modification of custody.

4.      Parental alienation: If one parent is actively undermining the child's relationship with the other parent, it may be considered a change in circumstances that warrants a modification of custody. However, it is important to note that not all states have parent alienation laws (for example, Kentucky as of 2023).

 

The court will always prioritize the best interests of the child when considering a modification of custody. The party seeking the modification must provide evidence and present a compelling case to demonstrate that the proposed modification is in the child's best interests.

 

In Conclusion: Preparing for a Child Custody Case.

Remember, the process of obtaining custody can be complex and emotionally challenging. It is important to approach the situation with patience, understanding, and a focus on the best interests of the child. By seeking legal guidance and being prepared, you can navigate the custody process more effectively and increase your chances of obtaining custody of your child.

1.      Understand the Types of Custody: It is important to familiarize yourself with the different types of custody arrangements, such as physical custody (where the child resides) and legal custody (decision-making authority). Custody can be sole (one parent has primary custody) or joint (both parents share custody).

2.      Focus on the Best Interests of the Child: Courts prioritize the best interests of the child when making custody determinations. Factors such as the child's age, physical and emotional well-being, relationship with each parent, and stability of the home environment are considered. It is important to demonstrate that your custody request is in thechild's best interests.

3.      Gather Evidence: Building a strong case for custody requires gathering evidence that supports your position. This may include documentation of your involvement in the child's life, evidence of a stable and suitable living environment, and any relevant information that demonstrates your ability to meet the child's needs.

4.      Consider Mediation or Alternative Dispute Resolution: In some cases, mediation or alternative dispute resolution methods can help parents reach a custody agreement outside of court. This can be a less adversarial and more cooperative approach, allowing both parties to have a saying the custody arrangement.

5.      Consult with an Attorney: It is highly recommended to consult with a family law attorney who specializes in custody cases. An attorney can provide guidance based on your specific circumstances, help you understand the laws and procedures in your jurisdiction, and advocate for your rights and interests.

6.      Prepare for Court: If an agreement cannot be reached through negotiation or mediation, the custody dispute may proceed to court. In this case, it is important to be prepared for court hearings and present your case effectively. Your attorney can assist you in preparing the necessary documentation, presenting evidence, and advocating for your desired custody arrangement.

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